Can still use the words grandfather/uncle? I've been using them like it's used in Hong Kong where children are taught to use the terms to address family friends and the like - when speaking English that is.
As a side effect of this, it is entirely possible, and not wholly uncommon, for a child to not actually know who his father is. Most women can be fairly sure, but it's not considered a big deal if she's not.
You shouldn't have sex with your parent, sibling, or child. Anyone else is fair game, but large age discrepancies (>10 years) are frowned on.
|Hence the dream and subconscious interpetation of Amael-as-Wolf being threating/warning as opposed to reassuring. Less "Come back into the fold" more "Disobedience is Death." Because, well, those who leave Pentingham never come back and nature is as cruel as she is kind . . .|