Stuff from Lords of Madness OK. Duskblade also OK.
Elans and Psionics are OK. However, if you want to be a psion, don't rely solely on mind-affecting stuff.
2 flaws to begin with are OK. They have to be justified RP-wise though.
You can choose normal or fractional progression for BAB/saves. However, they must be the same for both BAB and saves.
Clerics must worship an alignment or principle instead of a deity. Otherwise OK.
Tome of Battle is allowed.
Deadline is Christmas Eve. As for Dread Witch, you'll be facing undead, spirits, mad disciples and tentacled stuff, all of which are pretty resilient to fear/insanity effects. Better get basic sorceror or spirit shaman casting instead.